Stacey had her first day at work in Denver. It was a training class, but it was a new place and new faces. We were able to connect via webcam through SightSpeed; we had video, but no audio. It was great just to see her... We have so many other methods to communicate via voice and text, but the video was a plus. She mentioned that she started one of the books that I bought her and seemed to really like it. I've made it through half of my book on rebuilding trust. I'm going to start looking for another called Tender Warrior by Stu Webber. There is still so much more growing for me to do...
The kids both stayed with friends last night, which allowed me a lot of alone time. I spent it well reading and praying.
Tonight was busy with Trinady's cheer leading, but it is always good to watch your kids at sporting activities. They are such a blessing...
God is GOOD!
Monday, January 19, 2009
Sunday, January 18, 2009
Hitting the Trail
Yesterday was a beautiful day in NWA. Since I spent most of the morning cleaning up around the house, it was necessary to get out and enjoy the weather. Gregg Stutts and I connected via email and he joined me for a run around the lake Fayetteville trail. It's always nice to have a partner when a physical workout. Partners provide inspiration and motivation. Gregg and I also had a nice talk afterwards, which was good for my spiritual inspiration and motivation. Gregg is a great example and I thank God for allowing us to connect.
Stacey and her dad had a busy day learning their way around Denver. I get the filling from Stacey that she was ready to get in a routine. Her dad leaves this afternoon, which will allow her to do that. She will spend her first night in her appartment along and will start her new job tomorrow.... I will be praying for her.
Trinady and I spend the night at home together while Trenton stayed the night with a friend. It was nice to get some 1-on-1 time with Trin. We cooked Pad Thai, which she really liked. We had some fresh strawberries so she made some cinnamon tortilla's with strawberry topping and a scoop of ice cream. It was sooo good. She like to experiment in the kitchen like her dad.
Tonight Trinady went to church with her boyfriend and is going to the movies. Trent and went to church and he going to youth night this evening. The church is growing so much and we are blessed to be a part of it. I'm going to a men's ministry meeting tonight lead by Larry Watkins. His ministry is MSM Men Sharpening Men. Should be good...
David
Stacey and her dad had a busy day learning their way around Denver. I get the filling from Stacey that she was ready to get in a routine. Her dad leaves this afternoon, which will allow her to do that. She will spend her first night in her appartment along and will start her new job tomorrow.... I will be praying for her.
Trinady and I spend the night at home together while Trenton stayed the night with a friend. It was nice to get some 1-on-1 time with Trin. We cooked Pad Thai, which she really liked. We had some fresh strawberries so she made some cinnamon tortilla's with strawberry topping and a scoop of ice cream. It was sooo good. She like to experiment in the kitchen like her dad.
Tonight Trinady went to church with her boyfriend and is going to the movies. Trent and went to church and he going to youth night this evening. The church is growing so much and we are blessed to be a part of it. I'm going to a men's ministry meeting tonight lead by Larry Watkins. His ministry is MSM Men Sharpening Men. Should be good...
David
Saturday, January 17, 2009
Peace Through God
It's been a few days since I last posted. It was too tough to express my feelings and we had a lot going on.. Stacey has departed to Denver to begin her 13 week journey. She left Fayetteville around 4:00AM on Thursday towards Tulsa to pickup her dad who joined her on the drive. They arrived in Aurora/Denver around 5:00 MT. Just in time to experience rush hour traffic.... It was comforting knowing that her dad would be there to help her navigate and to get settled in her apartment.
The days leading up to Stacey's departure were some of the toughest for ALL. There were many tears flowing from everyone in the family. Stacey spent some individual time with Trinady and Trent, reassuring them of her love. There was a lot of talk of their trip to Denver in mid-February. Stacey and I did get to spend quality time with each other talking and finishing up our "Love Dare" study. The final days of the study included writing a letter of commitment to each other. Stacey's letter was very hopeful about our future, but she struggled with making a commitment to our relationship. I was disappointed, but I'm also thankful that she is being honest about what she is currently feeling in her heart. Don't get me wrong, God continues to work on her heart and in our relationship. We've come a long way in the past month. I will remain steadfast and will continue to find peace through God.
I bought a couple of books for Stacey to take with her. I pray these will assist her with spiritual relationship with God as she reconstructs her heart. They are true stories of Christian women/couples who have overcome similar situations. One of the books focuses on rebuilding trust, which I will be reading too.
Stacey's first day at work will be Monday the 19th. I will continue to pray that she remains strong and will use her time away to grow spiritually. Also, that she finds friendships that will assist her in her spiritual journey.
David
The days leading up to Stacey's departure were some of the toughest for ALL. There were many tears flowing from everyone in the family. Stacey spent some individual time with Trinady and Trent, reassuring them of her love. There was a lot of talk of their trip to Denver in mid-February. Stacey and I did get to spend quality time with each other talking and finishing up our "Love Dare" study. The final days of the study included writing a letter of commitment to each other. Stacey's letter was very hopeful about our future, but she struggled with making a commitment to our relationship. I was disappointed, but I'm also thankful that she is being honest about what she is currently feeling in her heart. Don't get me wrong, God continues to work on her heart and in our relationship. We've come a long way in the past month. I will remain steadfast and will continue to find peace through God.
I bought a couple of books for Stacey to take with her. I pray these will assist her with spiritual relationship with God as she reconstructs her heart. They are true stories of Christian women/couples who have overcome similar situations. One of the books focuses on rebuilding trust, which I will be reading too.
Stacey's first day at work will be Monday the 19th. I will continue to pray that she remains strong and will use her time away to grow spiritually. Also, that she finds friendships that will assist her in her spiritual journey.
David
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
11 Days...
Today was awesome! God continues to provide me with hope and blessings in regards to my relationship with Stacey. Stacey is not working and the family is home together tonight. We were able to eat dinner as a family; I made a mean beef stir-fry...
Stacey received word on the apartments that she will be staying at while in Denver. She seems excited, but I know deep inside she has reservations about the journey she is about to embark upon. I know I do... This morning I asked if she had any issues with me staying a night with her while I'm on my ski trip with Paul and Jon. She seemed receptive, which made me feel really good. I wanted to make sure she didn't think I was imposing on her time with the kids. This is the same time the kids will be visiting, so it will give us a day together as a family.
This morning spent some time in the word reading Psalm chapter 36. I didn't get to spend as much time as I would of liked to, but it was fulfilling to read about God's love. I will continue to pray for my niece, Jessica, who has lost her faith in God. Also, I continue to ask God for wisdom, strength and the ability to make good decisions in my personal and work life. I thank the Lord for the work he's done in our relationship and how he continues to soften Stacey's heart. Thank you Jesus.
I look forward to the time Stacey and I will spend tonight in "The Love Dare". I've enjoyed the discussions and open dialog. She is such a blessing!
Stacey received word on the apartments that she will be staying at while in Denver. She seems excited, but I know deep inside she has reservations about the journey she is about to embark upon. I know I do... This morning I asked if she had any issues with me staying a night with her while I'm on my ski trip with Paul and Jon. She seemed receptive, which made me feel really good. I wanted to make sure she didn't think I was imposing on her time with the kids. This is the same time the kids will be visiting, so it will give us a day together as a family.
This morning spent some time in the word reading Psalm chapter 36. I didn't get to spend as much time as I would of liked to, but it was fulfilling to read about God's love. I will continue to pray for my niece, Jessica, who has lost her faith in God. Also, I continue to ask God for wisdom, strength and the ability to make good decisions in my personal and work life. I thank the Lord for the work he's done in our relationship and how he continues to soften Stacey's heart. Thank you Jesus.
I look forward to the time Stacey and I will spend tonight in "The Love Dare". I've enjoyed the discussions and open dialog. She is such a blessing!
Monday, January 5, 2009
12 Days....
Yesterday's workout was awesome. I ran a personal best on the treadmill averaging a 7.39 mile over 5 miles (38.15 total). Stacey worked last night and is working again tonight. Stacey and I are on Day 38 of "The Love Dare" book. We've grown a lot going through this journey. I know the remaining days will challenge us individually. I'm excited to get back into it tomorrow to see how we respond. I've ordered a couple of books from christianbooks.com that I hope will help continue to strengthen our relationship.
I continue to work my way through Psalms finishing verse 35. It feels good to spend time in the word growing spiritually.
Today was very busy at work getting caught up from being on vacation last week. Trinady started HS Soccer practice today and then had to cheer at a basketball game. Our kids live busy lives... But I'm going to enjoy it while I can.
Stacey left an "I Love You" note under my pillow, which makes me very happy. I'm so in love with my wife and I'm glad to see her heart soften. She is a wonderful person... Stacey is busy preparing all of the details of her trip to Denver. We've shed a lot of tears together knowing how tough it's going to be while we are away from each other. We continue to ask God for strength and wisdom...
David
I continue to work my way through Psalms finishing verse 35. It feels good to spend time in the word growing spiritually.
Today was very busy at work getting caught up from being on vacation last week. Trinady started HS Soccer practice today and then had to cheer at a basketball game. Our kids live busy lives... But I'm going to enjoy it while I can.
Stacey left an "I Love You" note under my pillow, which makes me very happy. I'm so in love with my wife and I'm glad to see her heart soften. She is a wonderful person... Stacey is busy preparing all of the details of her trip to Denver. We've shed a lot of tears together knowing how tough it's going to be while we are away from each other. We continue to ask God for strength and wisdom...
David
Sunday, January 4, 2009
The Begining - 13 Days til Denver
Today is the first post on my blog site. Stacey and I listened to a great sermon by Gregg Stutts. It was about spiritual and physical strength, which was timely considering the times we are facing. Stacey will be leaving for her 13 week opportunity in Denver in 11 days. I'm so scared about being away from her, but I know it is necessary for us to grow stronger in our relationship. It is my prayer that Stacey and I can use this time to grow closer to God and each other. I told her today that, "I feel your love". I see signs of change in her heart, but I also can tell she is still confused about her Independence. My struggles continue with trust towards Stacey; it seems every time I get comfortable trusting her, there is a setback. This is going to take time... but I'm willing to give anything to save this relationship.
Stacey is working tonight so she's getting some needed rest. Trenton is bowling with Kyle. Trinady is over at Ben's and then going out for pizza at the Mello Mushroom (yum). I'm going to slip away about 3:00 and get in a good workout at the FAC and then pickup the kids. We want to eat dinner as a family before Stacey goes to work.
My plan is to spend time strengthening my spirit in the word tonight before bed. My desire is strong. I'm ready for some spiritual push ups!
I can do anything through the strength I receive through God!
David
Stacey is working tonight so she's getting some needed rest. Trenton is bowling with Kyle. Trinady is over at Ben's and then going out for pizza at the Mello Mushroom (yum). I'm going to slip away about 3:00 and get in a good workout at the FAC and then pickup the kids. We want to eat dinner as a family before Stacey goes to work.
My plan is to spend time strengthening my spirit in the word tonight before bed. My desire is strong. I'm ready for some spiritual push ups!
I can do anything through the strength I receive through God!
David
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